I Gave up Dating and Chose Waiting
One approach to the high school social scene
What kind of high school kid would put off dating? A weirdo? An unearthly, super-spiritual type? Someone who’s made an early vow of celibacy? Well, I’m none of the above. In fact, I have to admit that my initial decision not to date had little to do with God. It all started out with some logic. Continue »
7 Rules for Fighting the Good Fight
Try these problem-solving approaches next you're on the brink of an explosive encounter with your spouse or even an adult child.
1. Especially if you tend to be trigger-happy with your emotions, make an effort to defuse your anger right from the start: Take a deep breath, count to ten, and pray a quick, “Come, Holy Spirit!” Continue »
A Universal Call to Party
A New Family Tradition
Now is a time to think about baptism—and about launching a new family tradition. Continue »
Be True to Your Spouse-to-Be
What do you say when your teen asks, "Why wait?"
A teenager came up to me once after I had given a talk on marriage and asked me, "Why did God make sex feel so great and then expect us to wait so long before we can use it?" He continued, "Personally, I think there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage as long as each person agrees." Continue »
Let’s Celebrate Our Freedom Today
Celebrate the 4th of July as a Family
"Peace and war begin at home. If we truly want peace in the world, let us begin by loving one another in our own families. If we want to spread joy, we need for every family to have joy." (Mother Teresa of Calcutta) Continue »
Abba Father!
Experiencing God's Love
In the past, there were two persons of the Trinity whom I loved and experienced and prayed to— the Son and the Holy Spirit. The Father, however, was always somewhere in the distance, a person I could not reach. I didn’t feel I was worthy to reach him, nor did I believe that he had time for me. Continue »